Here we are again! This time she has really annoyed me, borderline pissed me off! I am referring to my ex-wife Jan. Last week she finally put some money in our kids school lunch account, to her credit she put in $150 dollars. She called me and told me that and then demanded, not asked, that I give her some of that money back! I told her that I wasn't going to do it because I didn't have any money at the time for one and for two she hasn't paid much of anything this year in terms of school costs. So she instantly gets pissed and pulls the "well you wanted them to go to school there so you can pay for everything from here on out" card. I told her I wasn't having this conversation with her and hung up on her. I know, real mature on my part, but I just couldn't deal with it then, I was tired and irritable so I chose not to have a fight. Now she says she is going to pull them out of school there so she doesn't have to drive thirty miles a day every other week. She lives in Ruthven and they go to school in Milford. Now before I go on, when I was living in Ruthven and she insisted on the kids going to school in CC-E she didn't have a problem with me driving them thirty miles despite the fact that they were with me a majority of the time during the school week when I worked weekends. So to save money and miles on my car I moved to Royal, which she didn't have a problem with either of those choices, in fact she told me that both of those were my choices, which they were. By the way, even though she wanted them in school there I still paid a majority of the costs of school. So back to the current, she tells me that she is done paying for anything with that school. I tried to tell her that is what the $430 a month in child support I pay her is supposed to go towards. She countered with "No, it goes for providing them a home. But if you want me to pay for everything I will take you to court and get full custody and then you can pay me even more." She just annoys the living shit out of me and in my opinion is totally wrong in this. Please respond if you have any thoughts or advice.
Peace out y'all
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first of all...y'all??? just because you went to texas for a few weeks a couple of years ago does not give you license to pull out the "y'all" lol...jk!!!! anyway, you're absolutely right, babe! you've done what's best for the kids the whole time i've known you and you are an amazing daddy!! your kids love school in milford and keeping them there is in their best interest. if "jan" doesn't agree and can't SEE how happy they are there, then she must be missing something...i love you!
ReplyDeleteSounds to me like she is a little bitter that she shits on herself everyday of her life both when it comes to parenting and I'm sure personally...her choice LOL and seems to be the typical behavior of a woman that is not happy for others and the strides made to better their own lives and those of the shared children. I say you are correct on this one and have the children best interest at hand....she is most likely making these threats in hopes that you will fear she is not lieing and give in. You are also correct that the child support helps with ALL expenses and not just 'housing' they cant wear the house to school nor would it taste real well. Goes toward..activities, food, clothes, gas to and fro, amongst numerous other expenses which SHE is half responsible.
ReplyDeletewow she is evil...I'm now going to go to bed angry! LOL